tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post4763289125231586616..comments2023-10-16T09:53:35.303-04:00Comments on Lets have a cocktail...: Down doobie do down downJennyMachttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14594526663480442855noreply@blogger.comBlogger101125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-63880021791893802712009-11-02T10:50:54.662-05:002009-11-02T10:50:54.662-05:00she doesn't seems like she was that great of a...she doesn't seems like she was that great of a friend to begin with?<br /><br />I had to lose a friend a couple of years ago - she became this person that I didn't know anymore. Drinking her brains out, kissing girls and boys and going home with who ever - I didn't want any part of that hot mess. She seems to have turned the page though.tiarastantrumshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03036618235332598079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-62853388908421736542009-11-01T22:19:31.412-05:002009-11-01T22:19:31.412-05:00*sigh* Breaking up with friends is SO hard to do.....*sigh* Breaking up with friends is SO hard to do... especially if they are long-time friendships. I don't know why people have this expectation that just because you've known each other forever that you have to stay "besties"... people change, and grow apart. It's natural.<br /><br />I just hate the awkward run-ins after you decide to break up with someone / a couple... eeek. hahaShop Girl*https://www.blogger.com/profile/07738681406180590822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-40280686446309663052009-10-30T21:16:58.306-04:002009-10-30T21:16:58.306-04:00Jeez. They sound like *they* were a whole lot of ...Jeez. They sound like *they* were a whole lot of fun. ;) <br /><br />Oh, well. At least they provided you with some great stories to tell.Jessica Nunemakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10362063485024522142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-8455614101193674982009-10-30T16:40:07.383-04:002009-10-30T16:40:07.383-04:00Oh my god we had to break up with a couple very si...Oh my god we had to break up with a couple very similar to your break up couple. They were so negative to each other and in front of everyone, and bad! It was just awkward and uncomfortable. Then they started lying to us about the stupidest stuff. They took their dog to the kennel because they wanted to get rid of him but they told us he got ran over by a car. Just idiotic shit like that. We flat out told them not to call us anymore and we wanted nothing to do with them.Grand Poobahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18223439935987831945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-3938620258376351852009-10-30T13:02:20.729-04:002009-10-30T13:02:20.729-04:00We broke up with a couple similar to them as well....We broke up with a couple similar to them as well. The woman would constantly make fun of her man and order him around in front of us. I knew it wouldn't be long when my husband whispered to him later on, "Hey man, grow a pair, will ya? Why do you let her order you around like that?" And then like the wimp he is, he told on my husband and then she spent the next girls night out with me defending her personality. Sooo bad and awkward! I wonder if she's got him tied up in the basement of their home now.... Hmmmm..... don't know..... no longer care!Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03345244543899178740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-27969683681977361742009-10-30T09:48:33.448-04:002009-10-30T09:48:33.448-04:00"a Marriage License should have a footer: Req..."a Marriage License should have a footer: Requires Alcohol."<br /><br />Once again, JennyMac, you owe me a new keyboard. I am forever spewing my coffee on it because of you.<br />:-)f8hasithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09195691823384775191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-64584326703674547562009-10-30T09:36:18.350-04:002009-10-30T09:36:18.350-04:00Sheesh. Some people need to look in a mirror.
And ...Sheesh. Some people need to look in a mirror.<br />And you were so right on about men breaking up. Every time Auburn looses a game, my hubby and his brofriend have a major disagreement about why said game was lost and then three days later and all about each other again.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04065195610270532889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-50961578686408277572009-10-30T05:52:12.502-04:002009-10-30T05:52:12.502-04:00Oh yeah, can relate to this big time. Went through...Oh yeah, can relate to this big time. Went through the same thing with a couple and a woman friend, oh my Lord....someone just slap me if I am that dumb again about reading people at the get-go.<br />xxxdebra@dustjackethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02397055465607649038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-16991027568653263782009-10-30T02:02:15.431-04:002009-10-30T02:02:15.431-04:00I broke up with a friend once. At some point afte...I broke up with a friend once. At some point after she'd strangled her roommate's girlfriend I decided it was just time.tattytiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18408220720084181008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-68127540953327506712009-10-30T01:48:41.913-04:002009-10-30T01:48:41.913-04:00Breaking up can be hard if you never saw it coming...Breaking up can be hard if you never saw it coming and the person you thought was really a great friend wasn't at all.<br /><br />I had what I thought was that type of friendship and she cheapened our friendship by saying that she just couldn't be the kind of friend that I needed....that it was all her...she just wasn't good friend material. Sucks to be her, I guess. She should have a warning to everyone that attempts to befriend her that she has no intention of being a good friend.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04459265311205890622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-15444684053965063072009-10-30T01:19:43.048-04:002009-10-30T01:19:43.048-04:00man i just went through this recently and i've...man i just went through this recently and i've been wondering if i made the right choice....thanks for this point, you made me realize i did the right thing...Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08661482257470326487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-43326972392381555052009-10-30T00:11:43.577-04:002009-10-30T00:11:43.577-04:00Especially not on their birthday, because that wou...Especially not on their birthday, because that would be the one and ONLY thing they would ever remember. You know like they can't remember to pick up Milk but darn it you calling them a name would be a lasting impression.<br /><br />Now in now way I'm a saying that was proper etiquette I always save that for home, but still not on a memorable day. No ammo needed please.Alexis AKA MOMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10829562970824293447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-36785107157522247982009-10-29T23:49:24.471-04:002009-10-29T23:49:24.471-04:00I totally do the phase out friendship thing. plea...I totally do the phase out friendship thing. pleasantries and beating around the bush. It's the safest, most passive aggressive way to deal with it. ALthough I like the d-bag line tooChiefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01666221134973458983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-47159697098642781432009-10-29T23:16:12.664-04:002009-10-29T23:16:12.664-04:00I have wanted to break up with friends but since w...I have wanted to break up with friends but since we have moved a lot over the years, that has pretty much taken care of it for me.Liz Mayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13960276167677132860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-77581917159518777132009-10-29T22:44:26.765-04:002009-10-29T22:44:26.765-04:00Good article ----wouldn't it be great to be a ...Good article ----wouldn't it be great to be a guy and just "put it out there" and then forget about it and move on. F you --no F you ---Ok'all's good.<br />No, women are so dang complicated.<br />Life is to short to spend with people that aren't -----well, worth being with. <br /><br />what coctail are you serving up tonightwendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13619293936418976914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-90957744702044965962009-10-29T21:39:15.814-04:002009-10-29T21:39:15.814-04:00We just think all other adults are evil and avoid ...We just think all other adults are evil and avoid them--maybe that is why I can only intelligently discuss Disney Channel televison programs.Slamdunkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13087161268629251860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-4588440198171862212009-10-29T20:54:33.554-04:002009-10-29T20:54:33.554-04:00Thanks for your comment!!! Im following your blog ...Thanks for your comment!!! Im following your blog now, and looking forward to read more!Ana Laura Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01923934492828997975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-66750850955820119582009-10-29T19:59:09.226-04:002009-10-29T19:59:09.226-04:00As much as i hate to admit it, I think the guy fig...As much as i hate to admit it, I think the guy fight that you narrated is so true!Farnnayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09833826535761502269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-35781960857746863872009-10-29T19:53:46.210-04:002009-10-29T19:53:46.210-04:00uuuuugh, you did the right thing here!uuuuugh, you did the right thing here!Alinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05116049562780969241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-74866229508548450602009-10-29T19:29:32.923-04:002009-10-29T19:29:32.923-04:00I've never had a "friend break-up". ...I've never had a "friend break-up". That's not to say that I am still friends with everyone I was friends with in high school and college. If we don't talk now, it's just because our lives went in different directions and we just lost touch. I can't even imagine how awkward that would be...<br />And I have been known to call my husband a dick, in front of others. But it was in humor and in front of very close friends and family who were in on the joke...I can't even fathom doing it in the midst of an argument...and never on his birthday!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08472225571357745676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-50578946723570464972009-10-29T19:15:20.426-04:002009-10-29T19:15:20.426-04:00That zippy "last in line" guy is someone...That zippy "last in line" guy is someone I'd like to meet. I bet he's a comedy writer.<br /><br />As for the "my husband is a @%#*" friend? The remark itself is bad. Repeating the remark to the husband is horrendous. But making the remark, TO the husband, in front of third parties is . . . reprehensible.<br /><br />Good riddance, I say.Lawyer Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04487040434589941351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-48295249242883301272009-10-29T18:56:37.101-04:002009-10-29T18:56:37.101-04:00I thought breaking up with friends stopped when I ...I thought breaking up with friends stopped when I was in high school... sadly, adult female friendships often have more drama than the ones we have when we're younger.<br /><br />Love your writing!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11062890492906037549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-88934710567387296552009-10-29T18:25:31.004-04:002009-10-29T18:25:31.004-04:00I recently had to break up with an entire INSTITUT...I recently had to break up with an entire INSTITUTION.<br /><br />I'm telling you, it took me DAYS to update my Christmas card list.<br /><br />But, and I say this with as much Christian charity as I'm allotted on Thursdays, the people involved were insane. Every. Single. One.<br /><br />So it was worth it. Totally.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07532225334730948057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-22709699423622090502009-10-29T18:17:48.009-04:002009-10-29T18:17:48.009-04:00Scary that that couple had a baby! What is it wit...Scary that that couple had a baby! What is it with people?<br /><br />Two years ago my closest friend, the one who told me I was a "once-in-a-lifetime" friend, wrote me a hideous letter telling me we couldn't be friends any more because we had both changed too much. She told me not to contact her ever again. Believe me, I didn't. But it really hurt because we had been so close for so long. Later other people told me how unstable they always thought she was... When I think of all the things I did for her, I feel kind of like a chump. She did a lot for me in terms of listening and counseling (as friends do), but it's pretty clear I was giving a lot more than I was getting. Yikes, didn't mean to spill so much here. Sooooorrrrry!Leah Rubinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13748324754530747231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269990339302416599.post-33030428597498891612009-10-29T18:03:36.373-04:002009-10-29T18:03:36.373-04:00Amusing post.Amusing post.Sultanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506141014376919585noreply@blogger.com